Last updated October 2026

Terms & texting

What Spark is

Spark sends you and your partner a few questions by text every Friday. Once you've both answered, each of you receives the other's answers. Spark is not therapy, counseling or medical advice.

Who can use it

You must be 18 or older and the owner of the mobile number you sign up with. Your partner joins only by replying 1 to their own invite.

Texting program

  • Program: Spark weekly relationship questions.
  • Frequency: recurring; message frequency varies, typically about 15 messages a week, mostly on Fridays.
  • Cost: message and data rates may apply.
  • Help: text HELP for help, or email hello@sparkfridays.com.
  • Stop: text STOP at any time to stop all messages. Text START to come back.
  • Pause: text PAUSE to take a break and RESUME to continue.
  • Carriers are not liable for delayed or undelivered messages.

Your answers

You own what you write. You give us permission to store your answers and deliver them to your partner — that's the whole service. Please be kind; we may stop service for anyone who uses Spark to harass someone.

Changes

If these terms change in a way that matters, we'll tell you by text before it takes effect. Questions? Email hello@sparkfridays.com.